Maybe It's Them
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Celebrity life-coach and author of Maybe It's You returns with a candid, uncensored look at the toxic people and relationships in your life to decide—maybe it's them, the people in your life, not you, who need to change. Foreword by Hugh Jackman.
In Maybe it's Them, bestselling author Lauren Handel...
Celebrity life-coach and author of Maybe It's You returns with a candid, uncensored look at the toxic people and relationships in your life to decide—maybe it's them, the people in your life, not you, who need to change. Foreword by Hugh Jackman.
In Maybe it's Them, bestselling author Lauren Handel Zander delivers a radically honest, no holds barred examination of the power of surrendering control, shedding toxic environments and people to find the path back to oneself. Her first book, Maybe it’s You, helped readers tackle their personal issues with her signature no-nonsense style of coaching, the same method that helped Zander form her wildly successful business. But when Zander was faced with burnout, a divorce after twenty-two years of a seemingly solid marriage, and people who robbed her own business out from under her, her world came crashing down. Surprisingly, once alone and living on her own terms, she came to realize that maybe it’s NOT her after all. Maybe it’s them.
Now, in Maybe it’s Them, Zander explains how she rebooted and rewired her thinking, presenting new, practical methods that will help you be true to yourself, stop lying, and finally face the people in your life who don’t want the best for you. By helping readers identify the core beliefs they learn early on in their family bubble, as well as the flawed inner dialogue they develop along the way, Maybe It’s Them teaches you that while you can’t control other people—their lying, taking, gossiping, and more—you can learn how to protect yourself from their toxic behavior. Zander offers a candid and uncensored manifesto for letting go of the people holding you back and living the life you were meant to live.
Published By Legacy Lit
Format Paperback
Number Of Pages 320
Publication Date 01/05/2027
ISBN 9781538783597
Dimensions 6 inches x 9 inches
“Having worked with Lauren for over a decade, I can attest that she speaks with a joyous, cheeky, loving, and uncompromising truth. There is no rock she won’t unturn! Wanna cut to the chase? Want someone to give it to you straight? Lauren Zander is your person!”
—Hugh Jackman
"We are so addicted to making sure our light isn't a threat to others. That part of my life is long behind me, and all of my gratitude goes to Lauren...This book is another step in her path to helping us all."
—Questlove, from the foreword
"Lauren Handel Zander is the truth-teller we all need. Maybe It’s Them is the book I wish existed every time I watched a brilliant, big-hearted person shrink after a betrayal. Lauren’s framework is revelatory: when everything falls apart, it’s not a sign you loved wrong—it’s an invitation to finally see clearly and build something truer. This is a book about expansion, not bitterness. About designing a life so rooted in who you actually are that nobody can touch it. Read this. It will change how you love, who you trust, and what you build next."
—Miki Agrawal, CEO of Thinx
"There comes a moment in life when you realize that no amount of loving harder, giving more, or trying to fix everything can change someone who isn't willing to change themselves. Maybe It's Them gives language to an experience so many people carry in silence. Lauren offers hope, wisdom, and a path forward that helps readers reclaim their voice, trust themselves again, and build relationships grounded in honesty instead of illusion. It's a courageous and deeply compassionate book everyone should read."
—Vani Hari, New York Times bestselling author and founder of Food Babe
"In this powerful and transformative book, Lauren Zander guides readers through one of the hardest human experiences: learning to trust yourself after betrayal, disappointment, and the collapse of the life you thought you were building. With her unique blend of candor, wisdom, and practical guidance, Lauren shows that even our deepest setbacks can become the starting point for extraordinary transformation. Wise, empowering, and deeply inspiring, you'll return to Maybe It's Them whenever you need the confidence to trust your own voice and the courage to follow where it leads."
—Lara Downes