Eight Dates

Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams

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Strengthen and deepen your love with a fun, ingenious program of eight life-changing conversations—on essential topics such as money, sex, and trust—from two of the world’s leading marriage researchers and clinicians.
Navigating the challenges of long-term commitment takes effort—and it just got simpler, with this empowering, step-by-step guide...
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Published By Workman Publishing Company

Format Hardback


Number Of Pages 224

Publication Date 02/05/2019

ISBN 9781523504466

Dimensions 5.5 inches x 8.25 inches

“[A]n instant hit… If you’ve been married forever and think this book isn’t for you, (dates??), think again.” —Oprah.com

“Whether you are already in a long term committed relationship or are just starting one, Eight Dates is an essential guide to building and maintaining true and lasting love.  Based on decades of scientific studies and clinical wisdom from our world’s leading visionaries in romance, this fabulous book will enable you to engage in fun and constructive conversations to nurture a love that can grow for a lifetime!” —Daniel J. Siegel, MD, New York Times bestselling author, Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence

"Brilliant" —The Chicago Tribune

2019 Nautilus Book Award -Gold in the Communications Relationships category 
— 2019 Nautilus Book Award