Maybe It's Them

“Having worked with Lauren for over a decade, I can attest that she speaks with a joyous, cheeky, loving, and uncompromising truth. There is no rock she won’t unturn! Wanna cut to the chase? Want someone to give it to you straight? Lauren Zander is your person!”

"We are so addicted to making sure our light isn't a threat to others. That part of my life is long behind me, and all of my gratitude goes to Lauren...This book is another step in her path to helping us all."

"Lauren Handel Zander is the truth-teller we all need. Maybe It’s Them is the book I wish existed every time I watched a brilliant, big-hearted person shrink after a betrayal. Lauren’s framework is revelatory: when everything falls apart, it’s not a sign you loved wrong—it’s an invitation to finally see clearly and build something truer. This is a book about expansion, not bitterness. About designing a life so rooted in who you actually are that nobody can touch it. Read this. It will change how you love, who you trust, and what you build next."

“In this powerful and transformative book, Lauren Zander guides readers through one of the hardest human experiences: learning to trust yourself after betrayal, disappointment, and the collapse of the life you thought you were building. With her unique blend of candor, wisdom, and practical guidance, Lauren shows that even our deepest setbacks can become the starting point for extraordinary transformation. Wise, empowering, and deeply inspiring, you'll return to Maybe It's Them whenever you need the confidence to trust your own voice and the courage to follow where it leads.”